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Wanting More Isn't Selfish — It's Self-Respect
Reframe "wanting more" from selfish to self-respecting
May 19
One Thing You're Allowed to Want This Week
Permission to name ONE thing you want but have been dismissing
May 12
The Day I Stopped Apologizing for Wanting a Beautiful Life
Mary's personal story about guilt and wanting more
May 5
April 2026
She Didn't Fix Herself. She Came Home.
The goal isn't to fix yourself; it's to come home to yourself
Apr 28
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What If the Pattern Wasn't a Flaw?
Reframe inherited patterns as survival strategies that once served you
Apr 21
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One Pattern. One Week. One Pivot.
One concrete action to interrupt a pattern this week
Apr 14
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The pattern I didn't see for ten years.
It was hiding in the most basic parts of my day.
Apr 7
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March 2026
I've been quiet. Here's why.
A lot has changed. And I built something for you.
Mar 31
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December 2025
What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You Right Now
I was scrolling through my calendar last week, and I felt my chest tighten. Three work meetings. Two kid activities. A holiday party I'd said yes to…
Dec 2, 2025
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November 2025
Why Being Excited Sometimes Feels Dangerous
I got emotional when I realized this: For trauma survivors, happiness can feel dangerous. Because there were so many times when it was. But that's not…
Nov 25, 2025
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The Thanksgiving You're Allowed to Have
It's the week of Thanksgiving, and you're probably already exhausted. Not from cooking or planning—from the weight of expectation. Here's what I wish…
Nov 18, 2025
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The One Thing I'm Unmovable About (Even When It Makes People Uncomfortable)
"I'm unmovable about something, and it makes some people uncomfortable. But I learned in grad school that without it, I'd burn out and hate everything…
Nov 12, 2025
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